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Mindfulness

“Mindfulness” is the hot new buzz-word sweeping through education, psychology, corporate consulting, and just about every domain of our modern lives. From the New York Times to the cover of TIME magazine and a recent TIME article, mindfulness appears to be hitting the mainstream like never before. But what does it mean? And how does it help?

As a graduate student of counseling psychology, I focused much of my research and clinical training on understanding the psychological benefits of mindfulness. In particular, I am interested in the growing body of research literature that shows how mindfulness training benefits adolescents and students in building underlying cognitive skills that enhance learning.

But before we dive in to how mindfulness helps in greater detail, let’s talk about what mindfulness is.

Here is the definition I use: Mindfulness is the act of intentionally paying attention to what arises in the present moment with a kind, open, curious attitude. Or put more succinctly: Intention, Attention, Attitude (see Shapiro & Carlson, 2009).  Mindfulness can be practiced formally or informally, either through traditional techniques such as meditation, or by brining mindful awareness to everyday activities such as reading, eating a meal, or taking a standardized exam!

Research shows that when students practice mindfulness it reduces mind-wandering, enhances memory, reduces anxiety, and facilitates better learning outcomes. The growing trend in mindfulness curricula for schools is testament to how broadly beneficial mindfulness is to improving academic performance.

Moreover, we live in a world where access to higher education, funding for educational institutions, and the development of curriculum standards are increasingly tied to standardized exams. A growing body of research provides encouraging evidence that mindfulness training can level the playing field and better equip students to meet the demands of our test-driven educational system.

In particular, the specific pressure associated with standardized exams and their role in gating access to higher education, coupled with the estimated prevalence of test anxiety, provides a compelling case for complementing traditional test preparation with mindfulness training. Mindfulness practice has been shown to decrease stress, reduce test anxiety, improve emotion regulation, and have a measurable positive impact on standardized exams.

It is estimated that up to 40% of all students experience some level of test anxiety and that those who experience higher levels of test anxiety perform lower on tests and in other measures of academic achievement. In my years working as an educational consultant, I have witnessed the negative impact of test anxiety first-hand. A student who has spent all week studying hard for an upcoming exam simply blanks under the pressure of the real thing, and thus begins the self-perpetuating cycle: “I’m just not good at math, so why waste my time…”

Test anxiety as a specific form of anxiety has been the focus of a large body of research, dating back to the 1960’s. Researchers at UC Santa Barbara recently utilized a randomized controlled investigation to assess the effect of a two-week mindfulness training course on the verbal reasoning section of the GRE with surprising results. When compared to a nutrition class, mindfulness training reduced mind-wandering, improved working memory, and produced an average improvement of 16 percentile points on the GRE, an improvement that is analogous to a 100 point improvement on the critical reading section of the SAT.

Join us for our September Wellness month as we explore mindfulness and what it means for us as students, parents, and humans. 

Insight’s 18th Birthday Celebration!

This past Sunday, August 27th, the entire Insight team celebrated our 18th Birthday at “The Art of College Admissions” Seminar event, held at our Cupertino location.

The event marks an exciting time at Insight, as we open two new locations this year in Newton, MA and Santa Cruz, CA. Celebrating 18 years gives us a chance to pause and reflect on how far we have come, and celebrate the milestone with the many families who attended our seminar.

“The Art of College Admissions” is an informative look at the college admissions journey. Combining the 18 years of experience Insight holds with our strong team of Counselors, we present advice and strategies to families as they navigate the often confusing and challenge journey through high school and during college applications season. This past Sunday, we enjoyed a lot of great questions from families in different stages of that journey, and we wanted to share some of those questions and answers with you in the hopes that it can assist you on your path.

Question: Should subject tests be related to the major I pick?

Taking subject tests related to their interests allows students to demonstrate mastery of these subjects and readiness for their majors. For instance, a student hoping to study medicine could take Biology and/or Chemistry. In fact, some BA/ MD programs want to see a Chemistry Subject Test score. However, taking an additional subject test outside an area of interest, such as US History or Spanish can show a student’s ability to master a diverse range of topics and is recommend by some colleges. More competitive colleges may also like to see a subject test in a subject unrelated to the major (for example an engineering major applicant who does well in the Literature or US History tests). A final point is that the Math Level 2 test is a test we recommend that almost all college applicants we work with take (unless there is a serious issue with performing well in math subjects).

Question: If you’re on the waitlist, do you know your position? 

Waitlists are unranked and, hence, students are not given a position. Admissions officers will go to the waitlist once they have received all Intent to Register commitments (this means when a student has accepted an offer to attend) from admitted students. Accordingly, they will try to fill the holes in their class with the waitlist candidates. Waitlists are used to help Admissions officers manage enrollment to make sure they aren’t left with a class that is under filled or over filled.

Question: Should we think about Canadian Schools such as University of Waterloo or the University of Toronto?

Canadian Universities can be a great place for students to gain an international education that is relatively affordable, close to home, and as academically rigorous as American universities. The weaker Canadian dollar makes these universities as (or more!) affordable than the University of
California schools. Just keep in mind that currency fluctuations make the four-year costs unpredictable. While there are some cultural differences, such as a much smaller fraternity presence, Canadian Universities have been attracting more and more Americans, and unlike other international universities have a very similar admissions process, timeline, and requirements to American universities. Universities in the Toronto area are also a shorter direct flight time away than Boston or New York.

Also, the University of Toronto likely has the better international reputation but Waterloo has the better reputation when it comes to computer science & engineering (and mathematics), especially in Silicon Valley.

 

Below are some photos from our wonderful day, you can see more on our Facebook page.

Thank you to all the families that attended!

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Q&A with Insight – Ajit Jain

Our Q&A with the Insight team continues this week with Ajit Jain, the Co-owner and Co-CEO of Insight Education! Celebrating our 18th Anniversary, Ajit looks back on his fondest memories. 

 

Where did you go to college?

I attended the University of Toronto in Toronto, Canada where I grew up. I studied Civil Engineering with a focus on structural engineering and construction management.

 

What is your favorite memory from your college days?

My engineering program was quite brutal so the happy memories are few and far between in all honesty. But I do remember an all-nighter in my second year for an environmental engineering class. We had to write code for the processes related to a water treatment facility and there was a bug we couldn’t find. Our group of four was going nuts trying to crack the problem and finally my friend, who is still my friend today, figured it out. We were filled with emotions that I had never before felt for schoolwork. It was likely a combination of relief, joy, and exhaustion all rolled into one and it drove us to dance around the computer lab like lunatics.

 

What inspired you to become a college admissions counselor?

My path to Insight wasn’t an obvious one. Purvi Mody and I met at the Stanford Graduate School of Business, pursuing our MBAs. Her lifelong focus had been education and I was looking for a change career-wise. After spending my summer at McKinsey & Co on two separate strategy consulting projects, influenced by the entrepreneurial spirit at the Stanford GSB, I was inspired to think of going out on my own after graduation. Although I interviewed and got offers from traditional corporations for full-time post-MBA work, nothing really got me excited. Serendipitously, while in Boston for an interview, an education company in Cupertino posted about selling their client list. Since I had no background whatsoever in education or college admissions, other than applying for undergrad and grad schools, Purvi Mody and I teamed up to make a bid for the client list and start Insight Education. Early on, I was motivated more by the entrepreneurial opportunity that Insight presented but as I slid into the counseling role I realized how valuable a role we play in the lives of each individual student and their families. And that continues to motivate me today.

 

What is the best thing about being a college admissions counselor?

There are two things that I enjoy most. The first is the moment, as a counselor, when you realize that an essay has finally made it to the finish line. There is no scientific method that tells us when an essay is final. Rather, it is a feeling you get that crescendos as you read the essay and ends with fireworks. The second is results season. As kids hear back from the colleges they’ve applied to and get their offers of admission, our office is filled with both nervous tension and pure joy. The way a student chooses to share the news and the words they use is just as exciting as the result itself! At this point in their lives, barely young adults, seeing and feeling that sense of accomplishment that they’re overcome with, with never gets old.

 

What is the most challenging thing about being a college admissions counselor?

One of our responsibilities as college counselors is serving as mediators between the student and his/her parents. This requires a skilled diplomacy and a great deal of patience. Especially when managing expectations in terms of a student’s preferred list of colleges to apply to and a parent’s preferred list.

 

Reflecting on the fact that Insight is now 18, what is your best memory from this time?

My fondest memory is hearing back from my first student to have been accepted to Stanford University. It was my first year working as a college admissions counselor at Insight and I was learning and doing as I went along. Seeing his email, which I believe said, “Yippee!” was a special Insight moment for me.

 

Looking forward to the next 18 years, where do you see Insight Education? What has changed, and what hasn’t changed? 

I hope that the company can continue to grow while honoring our mission and values. Many companies struggle to stay true to their identity as they grow and in our case, working with high school students, it is imperative that we don’t allow that to happen. 

 

Tell us about your favorite restaurant in the Bay Area

I have a nostalgic place in my heart for Celia’s Mexican Restaurant in Palo Alto because that was where I had my first meal after moving here. It was also where I celebrated my first Bay Area birthday and where my oldest son had his first birthday party!

 

Who is your favorite sports team?

Since I am obsessed with sports (along with my 7 year-old son), this is a challenging question! As a native Torontonian, I would have to say that I love the Maple Leafs, Blue Jays, and Raptors. The Leafs and Blue Jays were around when I was a kid so there is a lot tied to my childhood that those teams remind me of. I will never forget the Blue Jays winning two World Series, back-to-back, in 1992-1993. Celebrating on the streets of Toronto was amazing! The Raptors came along when I was in college so it was a huge deal in Toronto that Canada was finally part of the NBA. Locally I do love the San Francisco 49ers and they are by far my favorite NFL team.

 

What do you like to do in your spare time?

I wish I had a more exciting answer. But my spare time is spent with my family/two boys. I am especially busy with my older son as I zip him around from his guitar lessons to baseball and football practice. Life is busy but fun!

 

If you could pick any 3 people in the world to invite to a dinner party, who would they be and why?

I would invite Wayne Gretzky, Bill Clinton, and Bono from U2. Wayne Gretzky is my idol and in my opinion the greatest athlete of all time across all sports. I grew up watching him and idolizing him. I think that Bill Clinton and Bono are very similar individuals in spite of their very different paths. They can captivate a stadium filled with people or they can connect with a person one-on-one. Their charm, wit and concern for social issues is compelling and would make for an unforgettable dinner party.

 

If you had to pick a motto to live by, what would it be?

Don’t be afraid.

 

What is your favorite weather season and why?

As a Canadian living in California I always say that summer is every day. While it may get a bit chilly here and there in the Bay Area “winter” it doesn’t fluctuate enough for me to really sense a difference. Growing up I preferred Spring and early Fall because the weather was nice but less humid than a Toronto summer.

 

If you weren’t a college admissions counselor, what would your dream job be?

I would play centre ice for a professional hockey team and for the Canadian National Hockey team in the Olympics.

 

Where in the world would you love to travel?

I would appreciate the chance to drive across Canada one day with no calendar or schedule rushing me along. In spite of having grown up there, I know much more of the United States than I do Canada. Further out I’d love to visit Brazil, Argentina and possibly Kenya.

 

Any parting words of wisdom or advice to students?

You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. Similarly, you will not attend 100% of the college you don’t apply to.

Set Goals for The New Academic Year

Summer is a great time to really think about the past year and to set goals for the upcoming one. While you might want to block out what happened the previous academic year, remember that we have to learn from our successes and our failures. This will help you to set appropriate goals and strategies for the upcoming year. Find a time when you can really sit down and think about the past year. Even if you had the best academic year of your life, there is still value in reflection. Think of this as New Year’s resolutions for the school year. The key is making them stick.

The first thing you want to do is to take stock. Either think about or write down your responses to the following questions.

• What could you have done differently or better? This can be general or specific to each one of your classes in school. Be as specific as you can here. Something general like “study more” does not really help you at all. And an answer like that is really the easy way out. How could you have studied differently? Would you change the location or the time of studying? Would you study two or four days in advance?

• What habits would you like to improve? How could this have helped your performance last year? Examples of habits include time management, study skills, sleep, etc. Before you fall into the same bad habits again, pick the few that you really want to improve upon.

• Reflect on how and where you were most successful. What was it about those experiences that led to your success? Success does not just happen; you work for it. Don’t just dwell on the instances when success was not at your fingertips. Think about the times when your efforts were rewarded. What can you learn from those?

• How did your strengths shine through? We all have strengths. By better understanding those strengths, we can use them to be more effective. You might realize that you are really great at managing and leading others. You might want to take the lead on group projects. You might find that you are fantastic at editing papers. Perhaps you can help a friend edit a paper and she can help you with the format of a lab report. Now, I am not advocating for cheating here, but rather using your skills to help others and vice versa.

• What was your responsibility in the things that did not go well? It is often too easy to blame others for our own shortcomings. If you had a flimsy relationship with a teacher and your grades plummeted because of a lack of communication, what could you have done to strengthen that relationship? If your group for a project did not carry its weight and produce a quality project, how could you have more effectively managed communication or the members?

Once you have really dissected the past year, you can more effectively plan for the upcoming year. So let’s set some goals:

• What grades do you want to achieve this year and how will you do it? The second part of this question is actually the most important. Think strategically about the five or six things you must do to be successful.

• Outside of academics, what do you hope to accomplish? List five things you want to happen through your extracurricular activities, and how you plan to make them a reality.

• You are likely going to be taking some standardized tests this year. Map out which ones you plan to take and how and when you will study for them.

• What are your personal goals for the year? While school and extracurricular activities will certainly eat up quite a bit of your time, remember that this is your life. You probably have interests outside formal activities and school. Think about five things you would like to have happen this year. They can be simple things like reading 10 books or learning how to cook four of your favorite dishes.

Before the last days of summer disappear and you are suddenly in the thick of the academic year, take just a few minutes to reflect and plan. Your year will go by more smoothly and with less stress.

Tips for The New Senior Class

It is so hard to imagine that this year’s senior class has finally grown up. I have known many of my seniors since they were unsure, shy, aspiring underclassmen. Now they are the ones who are going to rule the school. Being a senior is not just a rite of passage; with the privileges come great responsibility. Here are do’s and don’ts to remember:

– Do think about your future and what you want to do after high school. It can be too easy to push off major decisions about your future until the future becomes your present. However, doing so is going to limit your opportunities down the road. Start developing your plans now.

– Don’t procrastinate on your college applications. How you work on your applications not only determines where you will get accepted, but also so much about your personality. Be thorough. Be detail-oriented. Be timely. Respect those who are helping you through the process, including your counselors and recommenders.

– Don’t forget that school still matters. Regardless of your plans next year, you are in school for a reason and that is to learn. Take every opportunity you can to learn as much as you can!

– Do remember that “senioritis” is not a real affliction. Getting bored of school is not a real medical or psychological condition. Really, it is just a made-up excuse to let school fall low on your priority list.

– Don’t’ forget to have fun! This is the last year that you will be spending with many of the people you have seen at least 200 days a year for perhaps the last 12 years. Your childhood friends will hold a special place in your life and the memories you create now will last for many years to come.

– Do learn the essential skills that you will need beyond high school. Get your license if you don’t have it already. Learn to do laundry — it is more complicated than you can imagine. Learn to cook — cereal does not count. Really learn to cook a few of your favorite dishes.

– Do get a job at some point in the next year. The money is certainly one piece of it. The more important reason, though, is that you are going to learn a new set of skills that no textbook will teach you.

– Don’t forget that this is more than another year of high school. This is another year of your life. Use this year to also pursue your personal interests. Perhaps you have been wanting to pick up the ukulele or read the entire Harry Potter series. Whatever it is big or small, explore all of your interests.

– Do savor every moment of this year. It is going to fly by faster than you can even realize right now.

All the best!

Your Insight Team

Q&A with your Counselor – Zach Pava

Welcome to a new Insight Series: Q&A with your Counselors. We’re starting off with our Insight Counselor Zach Pava, who works with us out of his hometown in Boston. Get to know Zach and a little more about why he loves being a College Admissions Counselor!

 

Tell us about Insight Education Newton?

We offer a comprehensive yet personalized approach to college admissions counseling. Counselors work one-on-one with students, in conjunction with their families, and schedule recurring meetings to aid in academic support, course selection, setting goals, staying organized, test prep and decisions. We also cover extracurricular activity building, help with applications and inquiries for volunteering, summer internships and jobs, interview prep, major selection, college research, essay development, application review, and more!

 

Where did you go to college? What is your favorite memory from your college days?

I graduated from Trinity College in Hartford, Connecticut with a degree in psychology. Trinity is a small liberal arts college located between Boston and New York, and combines a beautiful, green college campus with the resources of a small city. I built life-long friendships with terrific roommates and enjoyed playing intramural sports on the quad. My favorite classes included Mass Media & Pop Culture, Creative Writing, & Social Psychology.

 

How long have you been with Insight Education? 

I started working with Insight Education in May, 2013 and am now entering my 5th full season as a college admissions counselor. I look forward to many more as we continue to grow this terrific company.

 

What inspired you to become a college admissions counselor?  

I have worked with students of all ages ever since graduating college. As my students have grown older over time, so has the need to build services for older students as they’ve matured from 5-year-olds to middle schoolers to teenagers on their way to applying to and selecting the “right” college for them. It’s truly a privilege to witness their growth and progress over a period of years and I have had the rare opportunity to build long standing relationships with families across the country.

 

What is the best thing about being a college admissions counselor?

My favorite part about my job is being able to help students grow socially, to become their own people, to maximize their potential and find their voices, and ultimately, to be happy with their choices. I want them to head to college with the confidence and ability to make decisions that will positively influence their futures.

 

What is the most challenging thing about being a college admissions counselor?

We work long hours during the application season, which runs from about July to December each year.  I casually refer to it as our “tax season.” I think sometimes finding the appropriate balance between work and family is challenging, particularly when students rely on you so heavily for support.

 

Tell us about your favorite restaurant in the Newton area

Mandarin Cuisine has been a personal favorite of mine since I was young. I originally went there on Sunday evenings with my family and continued regular lunch visits with my best friend during high school and beyond. They are always very friendly and deliver great food with incredible speed. The scallion pancakes are a must!

 

Who is your favorite sports team?

The Boston Celtics have been the team I’ve followed most passionately since I was young. The Red Sox are a close second though and I try to get to a few games a year at the TD Garden & Fenway Park. Seeing both play in the Bay area against the Warriors and Giants was exciting.  It’s fun to root for your teams as a visitor and you learn to appreciate the passion of fans in other areas as well. There is a healthy respect between Boston and San Francisco.

 

What do you like to do in your spare time?

I enjoy doing fun activities with my family. My wife, Tarah, and I have two young children, a 3-year-old boy named Benjamin, and a baby girl, Emily, who joined the family just this May.  We recently returned home from Maine, where we spent time playing on the beach, took trolley rides around town, and enjoyed the freshest lobster in the world.

 

If you could pick any 3 people in the world to invite to a dinner party, who would they be and why?

I’d pick Barack Obama because he is the best public speaker I’ve ever heard. I’d pick Patriots coach Bill Belichick because he is the worst public speaker I’ve ever heard. And I’d pick comedian Larry David to see how quickly he could make each of them retreat from the table.

 

If you had to pick a motto to live by, what would it be?

“Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things…” No wait I’m sorry, that’s from The Shawshank Redemption 🙂 Seriously though, I would tell students in particular to “Try new things, as many as you can. The older you get, the fewer opportunities there are to explore your passions and find time for hobbies.”

 

What is your favorite weather season and why?

My favorite season by far is the fall. The leaves changes color, the summer heat disappears, my kids enjoy Halloween, and football returns. My favorite weather exists in October, when I can walk down the street comfortably in blue jeans and a t-shirt, a mellow breeze accompanying my stroll.

 

What is your favorite holiday to celebrate and why?

My favorite holiday is Thanksgiving, a time of family gathering, great food, and (usually) no snow on the ground yet.

 

If you weren’t a college admissions counselor, what would your dream job be?

I would either be a full-time screenwriter creating a new film comedy every 18 months or a professional poker player in Las Vegas, one of my favorite hobbies during my free time.

 

Where in the world would you love to travel?

I would love to visit Barcelona, Australia, and Italy, none of which I have been to.

 

Any parting words of wisdom or advice to students?

Be yourself and stay true to who you are. There will always be people in your life who want you to travel a specific path, either directly or indirectly. Find what you truly love and do whatever you can to pursue it.

 

Zach works in our Boston office and is taking new students now! Contact us today to set up a meeting with Zach.

Why You Should Take the SAT in August!

Update: In 2021, the SAT will be offered on August 28, 2021.

 

The College Board announced early this year that they would be offering the SAT on August 26th, 2017. Prior to this year, the first opportunity students had to take the test after June was in October.

Now that the College Board is offering an August test date, students have many more options and opportunities to prepare well for the test. One big perk of this date is that students who complete prep during the summer will be able to take the test while the information is fresh in their minds.

So, why take the SAT in August? The new date will give you the opportunity to take the test before you get bombarded by school work, homework, and midterms. For rising seniors who need to take the test one last time to get a score for their college applications will now have a chance at an improved score to help early decision or early action applications. This new test date offering also helps those who are taking SAT Subject tests which are also being offered in August and October.

The best way to prepare for the test is to practice, practice, practice! And practice means taking diagnostic tests and reviewing them so you can better understand and fix your mistakes. Insight offers full-length diagnostic tests to allow students to take the test in a real testing environment – no cell phones or technology, a quiet room and the ability to see how you perform with no distractions.

Just understanding your body’s limitations and learning how to focus during the grueling four hours can really help you know what to expect on test day. Doing tutorials for the subject matter that you need to get more familiar with will also help you feel less anxiety on the day.

You may still suffer from some form of mild test anxiety – don’t worry, this is normal! Knowing what it is for you, be it butterflies in your stomach, sweating, tapping your pencil, or erasing every imaginary stray mark – being aware is the first step in finding ways to cope. Taking deep breaths, focusing on something specific, going through a phrase in your head before the test may be what helps you. Whatever it is, having the opportunity to identify and practice is the best way to calm your nerves before test day.

Insight Education is offering an SAT Boot Camp starting on Monday, July 31st and running through to August 11th to help students who are taking the SAT on August 26th practice and prepare. This 10-day class empowers students with the endurance and confidence needed to ace the test. We are also offering Boot Camps throughout the fall for those taking the test later in the year. For more class information, click here.

Every test day, all the team at Insight are sending virtual well wishes to our students. Good luck and know that we are always here to help!

Is Working Part-Time During High School Really Possible?

Yes! 

I started working unofficially at the age of 7, helping my aunt file papers in her small accounting practice. When I turned 14, I got my first real job, at McDonald’s — the only place that would hire anyone so young at that time. And on the day I turned 16, I went from my driving test straight to the bookstore where I would work until college. Not only did I have to work to be able to pay for the activities I wanted to participate in, but I wanted to work.

One of our other counselors was taking orders in her parents’ coffee shop as soon as she could reach the cash register. Another worked as a waitress throughout high school and college. She can handle tough people like nobody’s business. One of our students takes the bus from school to her job at an office supply store three days a week, and manages to keep a 3.8 GPA.

But more and more these days, I see parents not wanting their kids to work while in school. For some it is a pride issue — “we don’t need the money.” For others, they don’t want their kids to focus on a short-term job and lose sight of a long-term career. And for a few, they really just don’t see value in their kids having a job. But beyond the hourly wage, there are many benefits to having a part-time job while in high school and college.

  • Awareness of money. Learning how to handle one’s personal finances is not a skill best learned in the classroom. On my first day of work, I remember thinking I would make enough money that day to buy the really cool pair of jeans there was no way my aunt was going to buy me. But I quickly realized that the IRS has something to say in how much money I actually take home. I also realized that working was a privilege. I worked alongside others who were trying to raise families and live off the meager wages. I learned to respect the work I was doing, no matter how mundane or menial. The jeans really did not seem important anymore.
  • Learn responsibility and time management. If you show up late for work or don’t show up at all, someone is probably going to get pretty mad at you. You might get yelled at. You might even get fired. Your parents might forgive you, but the company you work for will always remember. Working teaches teens that they are accountable to somebody and that there are consequences to not performing. And during the time they are at work, they will be forced to complete tasks on time. They will more easily learn to multitask and manage their time simply because there is no other option.
  • Deal with difficult people. There is nothing like getting yelled at by someone over a mistaken order or a long wait to teach people how to learn with difficult personalities. Customer service is at the center of most jobs teens can take on, and it is a skill that will serve them well throughout their lives. This type of social development rarely happens in schools. Don’t shield your kids from these experiences. They will make them stronger, more capable of being out in the real world.
  • Strengthen a resume. One job leads to another and another. The skills you learn from one job will help you when you apply for another, and so on. If you wait until the summer after your first in year in college to get a job, you are going to be competing with others who already have more experience than you. More importantly, you are developing strong skills — responsibility, money management, initiative, customer service, problem solving, and the list goes on. These skills are as valuable to an employer as specific technical know-how.
  • Colleges love work experience. I am hesitant to list this as a reason to work, because it should not be the reason to get a job. But the reality is that colleges love to see that students have had real-world experience, that they have ventured out of their comfort zone, and that they have learned important life skills. It likely means that you will take college more seriously.

The most important thing that teens learn when they get a job is independence, something most crave immensely but often don’t know what to do with once they have it. A job may also show them what they would like to do with their lives, and equally importantly it might show them exactly how they do not want to spend their lives. Both are valuable learnings!

So rather than discourage work during high school and college, encourage it. 

 

How Do I Find My Passion?

I have had the great honor of sitting on panels about college admissions. One that has stuck with me was a panel to share with students the true value of a college education and how to best prepare for it. It was an opportunity to see life not as one big race to the finish with college being the first major marker, but rather as a journey that is unique and very personal. One student asked a profound question:

“Everyone talks about passion, but I don’t know what mine is. How do I find it?”

Right then, I realized that we use the word “passion” too loosely. We ask teens to define their life’s calling, pushing and pushing them until they can say at least one thing they like. Then we label that a passion and use it to box them into a category. We tell teens to write about their passions on their college applications or to explain them in the college interview. We don’t give them a choice. Or worse, we look down upon those who cannot relay their passions in life quickly and deeply.

Let’s step away from the word passion. Even the most accomplished adult might have a hard time explaining her passion. And one’s passion does not have to become one’s career, and one’s career does not have to be a passion.

When I was younger, I loved swimming and did it competitively. I also acted in several community plays. As I got older I joined about a million activities and loved each one for different reasons. But I would have been hard-pressed to call any one of those my passions when I was a teen. I love my job and I love writing, but are they my passions? Maybe. But giving my interests a title doesn’t benefit anyone, least of all me.

So rather than trying to simply define passion, people — especially teens — should simply look for new and varied opportunities and experiences. You will never know if you like something until you try it for yourself. Use high school as a playground to try new subjects, explore activities and look to your community for different ways to get involved. You may not always be successful, but failure and disappointment are the building blocks of life. Embrace them and you will more quickly find what you love.

Too many high school students feel the need to simply check off the necessary items for the college admissions process. And I get it, these teens are under enormous pressure to succeed within a specific definition. But if we as a society could give them more space to make mistakes, to take risks and to broaden their perspectives, we will actually engage an entire generation.

Rather than forcing them to memorize facts, we can create problem solvers. Rather than forcing math and science, English or a foreign language on those who simply do not have the interest or skill for it, let’s encourage students to explore and push their boundaries for the sake of learning.

My answer to that teen is, your passion in life is going to evolve throughout your existence. Rather than focusing on finding it, focus on what you love to do, what you are curious about, and where your strengths are. Then step back and look at careers that might allow you to integrate as many of your interests as possible. And don’t think that your career is the ultimate show of what your passion is. College is another great time to see more and experience more. You will get greater exposure to what life has to offer, and your interests will evolve.

Summer Freedom Can Still Be Productive!

As final exams conclude, as you turn in your year-end projects, as you wait for AP scores and prepare for your upcoming SAT, ACT, and SAT subject tests in June, as you begin to pack for a summer trip, a new internship, or (gulp) college, please stop for a moment and take a deep breath.  No seriously, put down your phone and close your laptop.  I’ll wait for you.  Turn off the TV.  Put your stress ball down.  Shut your bedroom door and unplug the landline (I know, I know, what’s a landline?)  Make sure to take a long deep breath.  Close your eyes.  Think about where you are in your life and how far you’ve come, not only this year but in the year’s prior.  Think about your family and your friends.  Think about your goals for yourself.  Concentrate on your thoughts.  Relax for a few precious seconds.  Are you ready?  Good, slowly open your eyes.  Look out the window and exhale.  Now…

 

How would you like to spend your summer?

I know, it’s a loaded question, but an important one.  Are you traveling?  Are you volunteering?  Are you playing sports?  Are you working?  Are you studying for standardized tests?  Are you taking an online course?  Are you taking a class at a community college?  Ok, wait, I’m sorry about all the questions.  Go ahead and grab your stress ball again.  Are we back on track?  Alright, let’s try again.  There is absolutely no requirement that you engage in all or even most of the above activities I mentioned above.  By this point you have likely already discussed summer plans with your Insight counselor or at least pondered your options at home with your parents.  But whatever, you have decided, you should be doing “something.” Don’t panic – there is freedom in that word.  “Something” is inexact by definition – it lacks clarity and one person’s “something” isn’t necessarily the same as another’s.  You don’t want to copy the same summer plans of your best friend or take the most popular route anyway.  Rather, you need to do what works best for YOU.

 

Colleges respond to diversity, they respond to students who exercise unique choices. Just ask this year’s fantastic group of graduating seniors, who in just a few short months will be on their way to orientations on college campuses from California to the UK and beyond. Talk to seniors you know or ask your counselor to put you in touch with older students who shares your interests.  Find out what worked for them, what motivated them, and how they utilized the ten weeks each summer between school ending and beginning. Ask them if they have any regrets about the decisions they made (hey, there’s a nice college essay prompt for you rising seniors). 

 

But while being your own person is important, please don’t be alarmed if you are making decisions based on upcoming priorities either. In fact, that’s often crucial.  Will you be tackling your first AP class next fall?  If so, how are you getting ready?  Whether your peers are enrolling at De Anza or self-studying with a guide purchased on Amazon or doing practice problems through Collegeboard is irrelevant. Discuss with your counselor what YOU should be doing to maximize your success.  If you are signed up for an SAT in August or an ACT in September, how are you studying?  Some students thrive in a one-on-one setting with an experienced tutor.  Others do their best work in an intensive 10 day boot camp that enables collective ideas, reveals strategies, and allows for maximum practice. You can see our test prep options by clicking here. 

 

However you spend this summer, don’t be afraid to fail or try something unfamiliar.  Opportunities to explore who you are in depth are few and far between, especially the older you get.  Take advantage of this time.  And please remember, we are here to help.  We plan with students of varying ages every day.  We want to put you in the best position to thrive, to peak, to try a new activity. High school passes by very quickly.  Enjoy yourself, do your very best, and don’t forget to smile.